As women, we get the message about how to be a good girl - how to be a good, pretty girl - from such an early age. Then, at the same time, we're told that well-behaved girls won't change the world or ever make a splash.
Phoebe Waller-BridgeRead
The main relationship in the whole series was the one between the camera and Fleabag. I had to convince myself that whoever was watching on the other side of the camera was instantly complicit with Fleabag and instantly a friend of hers.
Interpretation
This quote highlights the intimate connection between a character and the audience, emphasizing the importance of viewer empathy.
In this quote, Phoebe Waller-Bridge discusses the dynamic relationship between the character Fleabag and the audience as seen through the camera lens. She suggests that the success of the character's journey relies on creating an immediate bond with viewers, making them feel like confidants and companions in Fleabag's experiences. This reveals the power of storytelling and the role of the audience in shaping the narrative.
In practice
Using this quote in a film analysis class to discuss character development.
As women, we get the message about how to be a good girl - how to be a good, pretty girl - from such an early age. Then, at the same time, we're told that well-behaved girls won't change the world or ever make a splash.
You don't often see a cross section of female characters interacting with each other at the top of a chain.
I think, a lot of time, I'm just writing my worst fears, of the idea of losing my mom or my best friend or doing something so terrible to somebody that's kind of deemed unforgivable or having a really broken family.
You're allowed to bore your friends and family, but to bore your audience is unforgivable.
If you hear somebody say something absolutely horrendous about their own life, in quite a flippant, offbeat kind of way, when you meet people clearly trying to be strong and brave, the ones who are really good at it are the ones who break my heart the most.
When an audience is laughing with a character, they make themselves so vulnerable, and they open up. They expose their heart the moment they're laughing, because they're relaxed and they're disarmed.
ah, you always go for the ones who don't really want you
I wish men would stop telling me how they are not 'bad guys,' how they're 'an exception to the norm.'
When the mind sees itself in the mirror of relationship, from that perception there is self-knowledge.
...real loneliness is having no one to miss. Think yourself lucky you've known something worth missing.
In order for connection to happen, we have to allow ourselves to be seen, really seen.
Men can be effective allies by making space and amplifying the voices of women around them. When each of us is an ally in our own sphere of influence - when we embrace the fact that representation is everyone's responsibility, all of the time - we won't have to go to the movies to see a world that's free of toxic masculinity.
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