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We are fragmented into so many different aspects. We don't know who we really are, or what aspects of ourselves we should identify with or believe in. So many contradictory voices, dictates, and feelings fight for control over our inner lives that we find ourselves scattered everywhere, in all directions, leaving nobody at home.
Sogyal Rinpoche
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What this quote means

This quote reflects on the complexity of self-identity and the internal struggle of differing aspects of ourselves.

Sogyal Rinpoche highlights the existential challenge of understanding one's true self amidst the fragmentation caused by various voices and emotions. This internal conflict can lead to confusion about our identities and a feeling of being lost or scattered, suggesting that achieving a coherent sense of self requires introspection and reconciliation of these differing aspects.

Themes

IdentitySelfFragmentationInner ConflictSelf-Awareness

In practice

Example use cases

In a self-help seminar discussing personal growth.

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