We can come to look upon the deaths of our enemies with as much regret as we feel for those of our friends, namely, when we miss their existence as witnesses to our success.
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Marrying means, to grasp blindfolded into a sack hoping to find out an eel out of an assembly of snakes.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Marriage involves risk and uncertainty, much like reaching into a bag without knowing what you'll find.
This quote by Arthur Schopenhauer illustrates the unpredictability and potential dangers of entering into marriage. By comparing marriage to blindly searching for an eel in a sack full of snakes, Schopenhauer highlights the challenges and unknowns that come with such a commitment, suggesting that it requires hope and courage to navigate the complexities of relationships.
Themes
MarriageRelationshipsRiskLoveCommitment
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be shared during a wedding toast to emphasize the uncertainties of marriage.
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