When men hear women want a commitment, they think it means commitment to a romantic relationship, but that's not it. It's a commitment to not floating around anymore. I want a guy who is entrenched in his own life. Entrenched is awesome.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes that women desire a partner who is stable and engaged in their own life, not just committed romantically.
Mindy Kaling highlights the misconception that women's desire for commitment solely means a romantic relationship. Instead, she argues that what women are truly seeking is a partner who is grounded and fully engaged in their own life, implying that a healthy relationship begins with both individuals being secure and fulfilled on their own before coming together.
In practice
In a discussion about healthy relationships, one might use this quote to emphasize the importance of personal stability.
I get so worried about girls with body image stuff And I feel like I have been able to have a fun career and be an on-camera talent and be someone who has boyfriends and love interests and wears nice clothes and those kinds of things without having to be an emaciated stick. And it is possible to do it. In life, you don't have to be that way and you can have a great life, a fun life, and a fulfilling love life.
What I've noticed is that almost no one who was a big star in high school is also big star later in life. For us overlooked kids, it's so wonderfully fair.
Anyone who's lost someone to cancer will say this, that you have to struggle to try to remember the person before the diagnosis happened, because they really do change - as anyone would change.
I always knew I wanted kids, but when my mom passed away I was like, 'I want a bunch of kids. I want three kids or four kids, and I want to have that relationship again.' I can't bring my mom back, but I can have children.
I have a thick skin, which comes from being a not-really-skinny, dark-skinned Indian woman. I haven’t fit in every place, and so I’m kind of used to resistance.
Here's my feeling: For everyone, men and women, it's important to be a feminist. It's important to have female characters. It's wonderful for women to mentor other women, but it's just as important for women to mentor men and vice-versa. In my line of work, having Greg Daniels be such a great mentor to me is fantastic. Finding a writer's assistant, be it a man or a woman, and encouraging them to think with a feminist perspective, is key.
I think we look for the differences in people because it makes us less lonely.
When two people are really happy about one another one can generally assume they are mistaken.
One of the things that people complain about is loneliness, disconnectedness. If you live in a society where your life is rarely threatened and most of your relationships are more on an economic exchange basis, then this could leave people feeling less connected.
In fact, the class divide in the black community is now seen by some as a permanent aspect of our existence.
The spirit of the marriage left the bedroom and took to living in the parlor.
I have learned that a man has the right and obligation to look down at another man, only when that man needs help to get up from the ground.
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