One of the great things about books is you can afford to do anything.
George R. R. MartinRead
Men's lives have meaning, not their deaths.
Interpretation
This quote emphasizes that the value of a person's life is found in their experiences and actions rather than the circumstances of their death.
George R. R. Martin's quote suggests that the essence of human existence lies in the meaningful lives we lead, through our choices, relationships, and contributions, rather than the inevitability of death. It serves as a reminder to focus on living fully and authentically, as our legacy is shaped by the moments we create and the impacts we have on others, not merely how we end our journey.
In practice
In a graduation speech discussing the importance of pursuing passions.
One of the great things about books is you can afford to do anything.
I hate outlines. I have a broad sense of where the story is going; I know the end, I know the end of the principal characters, and I know the major turning points and events from the books, the climaxes for each book, but I don't necessarily know each twist and turn along the way. That's something I discover in the course of writing and that's what makes writing enjoyable. I think if I outlined comprehensively and stuck to the outline the actual writing would be boring.
There is only one god and his name is Death. And there is only one thing we say to Death: βNot today.
I did not do it. Yet now I wish I had.β He turned to face the hall, that sea of pale faces. βI wish I had enough poison for you all. You make me sorry that I am not the monster you would have me be, yet there it is. I am innocent, but I will get no justice here.
But a voice inside her whispered, There are no heroes, and she remembered what Lord Petyr had said to her, here in this very hall. 'Life is not a song, sweetling,' he'd told her, 'You may learn that one day to your sorrow.' In life, the monsters win, she told herself.
I write from this tight third-person viewpoint, where each chapter is seen through the eyes of one individual character. When I'm writing that character, I become that character and identify with that character.
Sadness usually results from one of the following causes either when a man does not succeed, or is ashamed of his success.
It is perilously easy to have amazing sympathy with God's truth and remain in sin.
Grief, of course, is not something that operates according to a specific time frame, and it seems cold to suggest otherwise. Yet when we do not grasp that God is present in pain, we eventually insist on victory or, worse, blame the sufferer for not "getting over it" fast enough. This is more than a failure to extend compassion; it's an exercise in cruelty.
Take what you can yourself, and don't let others get you into their hands; to belong to oneself, that is the whole thing in life.
It was childish to feel disappointed, but childishness comes almost as naturally to a man as to a child.
As a child I was a great liar. Fortunately my mother liked my lies. I promised her marvelous things.
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