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The mockery made him feel an outsider; and feeling an outsider he behaved like one, which increased the prejudice against him and intensified the contempt and hostility aroused by his physical defects. Which in turn increased his sense of being alien and alone. A chronic fear of being slighted made him avoid his equals, made him stand, where his inferiors were concerned, self-consciously on his dignity.
Aldous Huxley
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Interpretation

What this quote means

This quote illustrates how feelings of alienation can perpetuate a cycle of social rejection and self-isolation.

In this quote, Aldous Huxley delves into the psychological effects of mockery and social exclusion on an individual. The narrator explains how being ridiculed for physical defects leads to feelings of alienation and self-consciousness, creating a vicious cycle where the individual's fear of rejection drives them further away from social interactions, ultimately intensifying their sense of loneliness and otherness.

Themes

AlienationMockeryRejectionIsolationPrejudiceSelf-Consciousness

In practice

Example use cases

This quote could be used in a discussion about bullying in schools.

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