Married couples who quarrel bitterly every day may really need each other as deeply as those who appear to be desperately in love.
In the modern technoindustrial culture, it is possible to proceed from infancy into senility without ever knowing manhood.
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What this quote means
The quote suggests that modern society can lead individuals to age without achieving maturity or true adulthood.
Edward Abbey's quote reflects on the impact of contemporary technoindustrial culture on personal development. It implies that in this fast-paced, technology-driven society, individuals may miss out on essential life experiences and growth that define manhood, resulting in a life of immaturity despite physical aging. This commentary on cultural influences raises questions about the values and priorities that govern our lives, emphasizing the need for deeper connections and personal growth.
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This quote can be used in a discussion about personal development during a public seminar on self-improvement.
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