Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Robert Louis StevensonRead
If your morals make you dreary, depend on it, they are wrong.
Interpretation
Morals should bring joy and fulfillment; if they don't, they might be misguided.
This quote emphasizes that true morals should not lead to feelings of gloom or unease. Instead, they should inspire positivity and a sense of rightness within us. If adhering to certain morals causes dreariness, it suggests those morals might not be aligned with our true values and understanding of life.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a discussion about ethical dilemmas to emphasize the importance of joyful morals.
Our business in life is not to succeed, but to continue to fail in good spirits.
Like a bird singing in the rain, let grateful memories survive in time of sorrow.
That man is a success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much.
His past was fairly blameless; few men could read the rolls of their life with less apprehension; yet he was humbled to the dust by the many ill things he had done, and raised up again into sober and fearful gratitude by the many he had come so near to doing, yet avoided.
The habit of being happy enables one to be freed, or largely freed, from the domination of outward conditions.
It is the history of our kindnesses that alone make this world tolerable. If it were not for that, for the effect of kind words, kind looks, kind letters . . . I should be inclined to think our life a practical jest in the worst possible spirit.
It is good even for old men to learn wisdom.
There is something terribly morbid in the modern sympathy with pain. One should sympathise with the colour, the beauty, the joy of life. The less said about life's sores the better.
Invincibility depends on one's self; the enemy's vulnerability on him.
[T]omorrow is a new day. You shall begin it well & serenely, & with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense. This day ... is too dear with its hopes & invitations to waste a moment on the rotten yesterdays.
Pain can make a whole winter bright, like fever, force us to live deep and hard.
One must know not just how to accept a gift, but with what grace to share it.
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