It's weird that, in a way, by writing about video games, I get to develop them, too.
As we continued to talk, going through the motions of getting to know each other, I realized that we already did know each other, as well as any two people could. We’d known each other for years, in the most intimate way possible. We’d connected on a purely mental level. I understood her, trusted her, and loved her as a dear friend. None of that had changed, or could be changed by anything as inconsequential as her gender, or skin color, or sexual orientation.
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What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the deep mental connection that transcends superficial characteristics.
In this quote, Ernest Cline reflects on the profound bond that exists between two individuals who have established a strong connection based on understanding and trust. He highlights that true companionship is not defined by external factors such as gender or skin color but rather by the mental and emotional intimacy that has been cultivated over time. This indicates that meaningful relationships are built on a foundation of respect and mutual comprehension, regardless of social constructs.
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Example use cases
This quote can be used in discussions about the importance of acceptance and understanding in relationships.
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I felt like a kid standing in the world's greatest video arcade without any quarters, unable to do anything but walk around and watch the other kids play.
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