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That fiend!" Mr. Darling would cry, and Nana's bark was the echo of it, but Mrs. Darling never upbraided Peter; there was something in the right-hand corner of her mouth that wanted her not to call Peter names.
James M. Barrie
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What this quote means

This quote reflects the complexity of emotions in relationships, particularly the balance between criticism and affection.

In this quote from J.M. Barrie's work, Mr. Darling expresses frustration with Peter Pan, referring to him as a 'fiend,' while Nana, the dog, echoes his sentiments. However, Mrs. Darling reveals a deeper emotional connection, as indicated by her hesitation to criticize Peter, suggesting that love can often prevail over anger or frustration, especially when it comes to those we care about.

Themes

RelationshipsLoveAffectionCriticismEmotions

In practice

Example use cases

During a family gathering, you might recall this quote to highlight the importance of holding back judgment for those we love.

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