Every one sees what you appear to be, few really know what you are, and those few dare not oppose themselves to the opinion of the many, who have the majesty of the state to defend them.
Niccolo MachiavelliRead
The nature of man is such that people consider themselves put under an obligation as much by the benefits they confer as by those they receive.
Interpretation
People feel a sense of duty based on both the help they give and the help they receive.
This quote by Niccolo Machiavelli reflects on the reciprocal nature of human relationships, suggesting that individuals feel obligated not only for the kindnesses they have received from others but also for the support and benefits they themselves offer. It highlights the complexity of social interactions and the idea that obligations can arise from both sides of the exchange, creating a sense of interconnectedness in human behavior.
In practice
This quote can be shared during a community service event to emphasize the importance of giving.
Every one sees what you appear to be, few really know what you are, and those few dare not oppose themselves to the opinion of the many, who have the majesty of the state to defend them.
For that reason, let a prince have the credit of conquering and holding his state, the means will always be considered honest, and he will be praised by everybody because the vulgar are always taken by what a thing seems to be and by what comes of it; and in the world there are only the vulgar, for the few find a place there only when the many have no ground to rest on.
Many have imagined republics and principalities which have never been seen or known to exist in reality; for how we live is so far removed from how we ought to live, that he who abandons what is done for what ought to be done, will rather bring about his own ruin than his preservation.
Whoever conquers a free town and does not demolish it commits a great error and may expect to be ruined himself.
And here one must not that hatred is acquired just as much by means of good actions as by bad ones; and so, as I said above, if a prince wishes to maintain the state, he is often obliged not to be good; because whenever that group which you believe you need to support you is corrupted, whether it be the common people, the soldiers, or the nobles, it is to your advantage to follow their inclinations in order to satisfy them; and then good actions are your enemy.
The chief foundations of all states, new as well as old or composite, are good laws and good arms.
If we move in mass, be it ever so circuitously, we shall attain our object; but if we break into squads, everyone pursuing the path he thinks most direct, we become an easy conquest to those who can now barely hold us in check.
The greatest pride, or the greatest despondency, is the greatest ignorance of one's self.
Prayer is not a preparation for the battle; it is the battle!
Belief in a cruel God makes a cruel man.
For after the Battle comes quiet.
Only He who really lived a human life (and I presume that only one did) can fully taste the horror of death.
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