If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
There are some nights when sleep plays coy, aloof and disdainful. And all the wiles that I employ to win its service to my side are useless as wounded pride, and much more painful.
Interpretation
This quote expresses the struggle and frustration of trying to achieve rest and peace of mind when faced with insomnia.
Maya Angelou's quote highlights the challenging experience of sleeplessness and the emotional pain that can accompany it. She personifies sleep as a capricious companion, suggesting that no matter the efforts one makes to invite sleep, sometimes it remains elusive. This reflects a broader human experience of longing for peace and the frustration that comes when it feels unattainable.
In practice
A person might use this quote in a speech about the challenges of mental health.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Men of genius are far more abundant than is supposed. In fact, to appreciate thoroughly the work of what we call genius, is to possess all the genius by which the work was produced.
Every young man would do well to remember that all successful business stands on the foundation of morality.
The cleverest of all, in my opinion, is the man who calls himself a fool at least once a month.
If, from time to time, you give up expectation, you will be able to perceive what it is you are getting.
To enjoy the rainbow, first enjoy the rain.
The door to God is the insecurity of not knowing anything. Bear the grace of that uncertainty and all wisdom will be yours.
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