It isn't normal to know what we want. It is a rare and difficult psychological achievement.
Interpretation
Understanding our true desires is challenging and uncommon.
Abraham Maslow highlights the complexity of self-awareness and the difficulty individuals face in identifying their true wants and needs. He suggests that this clarity of purpose is not merely a common skill but a significant psychological milestone that requires introspection and self-discovery.
In practice
In a motivational speech, one might say, 'As Maslow pointed out, knowing what we want in life is a rare achievement, so take the time to really discover your passions.'
It looks as if there were a single ultimate goal for mankind, a far goal toward which all persons strive. This is called variously by different authors self-actualization, self-realization, integration, psychological health, individuation, autonomy, creativity, productivity, but they all agree that this amounts to realizing the potentialities of the person, that is to say, becoming fully human, everything that person can be.
Dispassionate objectivity is itself a passion, for the real and for the truth.
The study of crippled, stunted, immature, and unhealthy specimens can yield only a cripple psychology and a cripple philosophy
Marriage is a school itself. Also, having children. Becoming a father changed my whole life. It taught me as if by revelation.
It seems that the necessary thing to do is not to fear mistakes, to plunge in, to do the best that one can, hoping to learn enough from blunders to correct them eventually.
I was awfully curious to find out why I didn't go insane.
Let the spirit out - Discard all thoughts of reward, all hopes of praise and fears of blame, all awareness of one's bodily self. And, finally closing the avenues of sense perception, let the spirit out, as it will.
Ipsa scientia potestas est. (Knowledge itself is power.)
When you have those two languages - an analytic one like English and a synthetic, very sensual thing like Russian, you get almost a psychotic sense of humanity that permeates nearly everything. It can help you understand, and it can discourage you, because you see how little can be done.
Impartiality is a pompous name for indifference, which is an elegant name for ignorance.
Patience is a godly attribute that can heal souls, unlock treasures of knowledge and understanding, and transform ordinary men and women into saints and angels. Patience is truly a fruit of the Spirit. Patience means staying with something until the end. It means delaying immediate gratification for future blessings.
Choosing to take responsibility for ourselves and for the consequences our choices create looks like hard work, but it really sets us free.
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