Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
E. M. ForsterRead
Very notable was his distinction between coarseness and vulgarity, coarseness, revealing something; vulgarity, concealing something.
Interpretation
Coarseness exposes the raw truth, while vulgarity hides it behind a façade.
E. M. Forster’s quote highlights an important distinction between coarseness and vulgarity, suggesting that coarseness, while perhaps harsh, reveals genuine aspects of a person or situation. In contrast, vulgarity represents a concealment of the truth or a masking of one's true self, indicating a preference for appearance over authenticity.
In practice
In a debate about art, one might quote Forster to illustrate the difference between honest expression and pretentiousness.
Personal relations are the important thing for ever and ever, and not this outer life of telegrams and anger.
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The fact is we can only love what we know personally. And we cannot know much. In public affairs, in the rebuilding of civilization, something less dramatic and emotional is needed, namely tolerance.
One person with passion is better than forty people merely interested.
In my last year of school, I was voted Class Optimist and Class Pessimist. Looking back, I realize I was only half right.
In the search for reality, energy creates its own discipline. But mere discipline, without full comprehension of all this, has no meaning, it is a most destructive thing.
Most world religions denounced war as a barbaric waste of human life. We treasured the teachings of these religions so dearly that we frequently had to wage war in order to impose them on other people.
Self-love, my liege, is not so vile a sin, as self-neglecting.
Who are you?" "I am Death," said the creature. "I thought that was obvious." "But you're so small!" "Only because you are small. You are young and far from your Death, September, so I seem as anything would seem if you saw it from a long way off-very small, very harmless. But I am always closer than I appear. As you grow, I shall grow with you, until at the end, I shall loom huge and dark over your bed, and you will shut your eyes so as not to see me.
For far too long we have been seduced into walking a path that did not lead us to ourselves. For far too long we have said yes when we wanted to say no. And for far too long we have said no when we desperately wanted to say yes. . . . When we don't listen to our intuition, we abandon our souls. And we abandon our souls because we are afraid if we don't, others will abandon us.
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