The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right.
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Nothing can be further apart than true humility and servility.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True humility involves self-awareness and dignity, while servility denotes a lack of self-respect and submission.
In this quote, Henry Ward Beecher emphasizes the significant distinction between true humility and servility. True humility is characterized by an authentic understanding of oneβs value and position, presenting oneself with dignity and respect, whereas servility reflects a subservient mentality and an inability to maintain oneβs self-respect. This highlights the importance of finding a balance between humility and self-worth.
Themes
HumilityServilitySelf-RespectDignitySelf-Awareness
In practice
Example use cases
During a leadership workshop, I used this quote to illustrate the difference between being humble and being submissive.
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