Death carries off a man busy picking flowers with an besotted mind, like a great flood does a sleeping village.
Gautama BuddhaRead
There is nothing more dreadful than the habit of doubt. Doubt separates people. It is a poison that disintegrates friendships and breaks up pleasant.
Interpretation
Doubt can ruin relationships and create distance between people.
This quote by Gautama Buddha emphasizes the destructive nature of doubt in human connections. Doubt can create barriers, breed mistrust, and ultimately lead to the disintegration of friendships and other positive relationships, highlighting the importance of trust and confidence in maintaining strong bonds with others.
In practice
In a speech about building strong relationships, one might use this quote to illustrate the importance of trust.
Death carries off a man busy picking flowers with an besotted mind, like a great flood does a sleeping village.
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Make an island of yourself, make yourself your refuge; there is no other refuge. Make truth your island, make truth your refuge; there is no other refuge.
When a wise man is advised of his errors, he will reflect on and improve his conduct. When his misconduct is pointed out, a foolish man will not only disregard the advice but rather repeat the same error.
The tongue like a sharp knife ... Kills without drawing blood.
Before marriage, a girl has to make love to a man to hold him. After marriage, she has to hold him to make love to him.
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We are each other's harvest; we are each other's business; we are each other's magnitude and bond.
One would like to say in the aftermath of the 2008 election that everyone lived happily ever after. But the American drama, especially when it involves race, is always more complicated than that.
When you are sixteen you do not know what your parents know, or much of what they understand, and less of what's in their hearts. This can save you from becoming an adult too early, save your life from becoming only theirs lived over again--which is a loss. But to shield yourself--as I didn't do--seems to be an even greater error, since what's lost is the truth of your parents' life and what you should think about it, and beyond that, how you should estimate the world you are about to live in.
Marriage is not a noun; it's a verb. It isn't something you get. It's something you do. It's the way you love your partner every day.
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