I can never drive my car over a bridge without thinking of suicide. I can never look at a lake or an ocean without thinking of suicide.
Charles BukowskiRead
Too often the people complain that they have done nothing with their lives and then they wait for somebody to tell them that this isn't so.
Interpretation
People frequently feel dissatisfied with their lives but look for external validation instead of taking action themselves.
In this quote, Charles Bukowski highlights a common human tendency: individuals often express discontent about their lives without recognizing their own role in shaping their journey. Rather than seeking reassurance from others, people should take initiative and responsibility for their actions and choices, as waiting for validation can lead to a stagnant and unfulfilled life.
In practice
During a motivational speech to inspire young adults to take charge of their futures.
I can never drive my car over a bridge without thinking of suicide. I can never look at a lake or an ocean without thinking of suicide.
when I am feeling low all i have to do is watch my cats and my courage returns
The masses are always wrong...Wisdom is doing everything the crowd does not do. All you do is reverse the totality of their learning and you have the heaven they're looking for.
I'm going to open another vottle. not a vottle, but a bottle. you open it and I'll drink it. and you try to write as much as I did without falling off of your chair.
To experience real agony is something hard to write about, impossible to understand while it grips you; you're frightened out of your wits, canβt sit still, move, or even go decently insane.
I lapsed into my pathetic cut-off period. Often with humans, both good and bad, my senses simply shut off, they get tired, I give up. I am polite. I nod. I pretend to understand because I donβt want anybody to be hurt. That is the one weakness that has lead me into the most trouble. Trying to be kind to others I often get my soul shredded into a kind of spiritual pasta. No matter. My brain shuts off. I listen. I respond. And they are too dumb to know that I am not there.
Stay healthy, do sports and above all have fun while doing sport. Competing or just for fun, whatever, simply enjoy and try your best. Working hard, working well with achievable goals normally pays off. Believe in the people that are with you and listen to those who have more experience.
But to those who kept saying_x000D_ "It can't be done,"_x000D_ Never are the victories_x000D_ Or the honors won._x000D_ But, rather,_x000D_ By the believing, doing kind,_x000D_ While the doubters_x000D_ Watched from far behind.
Your personal power is not something that is going to reveal itself at some later date. Your power is a result of your decision to reveal it. You are powerful in whatever moment you choose to be.
Goal setting has traditionally been based on past performance. This practice has tended to perpetuate the sins of the past.
The goal is to be on the hook, not to let someone else do the scary parts.
There's nothing wrong with having a plan. Plans are great. But missions are better. Missions survive when plans fail, and plans almost always fail.
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