All the world knows me in my book, and my book in me.
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I have often seen people uncivil by too much civility, and tiresome in their courtesy.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Excessive politeness can sometimes come off as insincere and annoying.
Michel De Montaigne suggests that while civility and courtesy are generally considered virtues, they can become excessive to the point of being counterproductive. Overly polite behavior may appear disingenuous and can lead to frustration or discomfort in social interactions, highlighting the importance of balance in how we conduct ourselves with others.
Themes
CivilityCourtesyExcessBalanceSocial Interactions
In practice
Example use cases
During a lecture on etiquette, this quote could be referenced to discuss the fine line between politeness and insincerity.
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