If you have the guts to be yourself, other people'll pay your price.
John UpdikeRead
We are fated to love one another; we hardly exist outside our love, we are just animals without it, with a birth and a death and constant fear between. Our love has lifted us up , out of the dreadfulness of merely living.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Love is essential to our existence, shaping our very being and providing meaning beyond mere survival.
In this quote, John Updike expresses the profound impact of love on human existence, suggesting that love is what truly defines us. Without love, he argues, we are reduced to mere animals, experiencing only the cycle of life and fear. Love elevates us from the mundane and gives purpose to our lives, making it an intrinsic part of our humanity.
Themes
LoveExistenceHumanityPurposeFear
In practice
Example use cases
In a wedding speech, one might say, 'As John Updike eloquently stated, we are fated to love one another, and it's this love that brings us together today.'
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