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One isn't born one's self. One is born with a mass of expectations, a mass of other people's ideas - and you have to work through it all.
V. S. Naipaul
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What this quote means

This quote suggests that individuals are shaped by others' expectations and ideas, and personal identity is something that must be actively realized.

V. S. Naipaul reflects on the complexities of identity formation, emphasizing that individuals are not inherently themselves at birth. Instead, they arrive into a world filled with societal expectations and external influences that shape who they become. The journey to self-discovery involves navigating through these imposed ideas and working towards establishing one’s true identity.

Themes

IdentityExpectationsSelf-DiscoveryIndividualitySociety

In practice

Example use cases

In a speech about personal growth, one might highlight Naipaul's quote to illustrate the challenges of finding one's true self amidst societal pressures.

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