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When one is trying to do something beyond his known powers it is useless to seek the approval of friends. Friends are at their best in moments of defeat.
Henry Miller
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Interpretation

What this quote means

True friends support you in failure more than in success, especially when pursuing ambitious goals.

This quote by Henry Miller emphasizes the importance of self-reliance when attempting to achieve great things that stretch beyond our current capabilities. It suggests that seeking validation from friends can be counterproductive; friends often show their true worth during challenging times, making their support more meaningful when we face setbacks rather than in moments of success.

Themes

FriendsApprovalFailureSuccessSupport

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be referenced in a motivational speech about resilience during challenges.

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