Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
EpictetusRead
There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.
Interpretation
Happiness comes from letting go of worries over things we cannot control.
Epictetus, a Stoic philosopher, teaches that true happiness can only be achieved when we stop worrying about circumstances that are beyond our control. By focusing our thoughts and efforts only on what we can influence, we free ourselves from unnecessary stress and find contentment in the present moment.
In practice
During a motivational speech about mental health, one might share this quote to encourage listeners to focus on what they can control.
Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
Learn to distinguish what you can and can't control. Within our control are our own opinions, aspirations, desires and the things that repel us. They are directly subject to our influence.
Men are disturbed not by the things that happen, but by their opinion of the things that happen.
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The people have a right to the truth as they have a right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.
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If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or objects.
The search for happiness is one of the chief sources of unhappiness.
We have everything we need to be happy, but we aren't happy. Something's missing.
Our greatest happiness does not depend on the condition of life in which chance has placed us, but is always the result of a good conscience, good health, occupation, and freedom in all just pursuits.
The pursuit of happiness, which American citizens are obliged to undertake, tends to involve them in trying to perpetuate the moods, tastes and aptitudes of youth.
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