Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
When writing goes painfully, when it’s hideously difficult, and one feels real despair (ah, the despair, silly as it is, is real!)–then naturally one ought to continue with the work; it would be cowardly to retreat. But when writing goes smoothly–why then one certainly should keep on working, since it would be stupid to stop. Consequently one is always writing or should be writing.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Writing requires perseverance through challenges and a commitment to continue even during difficult times.
In this quote, Joyce Carol Oates emphasizes the importance of persistence in the writing process. She acknowledges that writing can be incredibly challenging and even despairing at times, yet it is essential to push through those difficulties rather than retreating. Conversely, when the creative flow is positive and effortless, it is equally important to continue harnessing that momentum. Ultimately, Oates suggests that a writer should always be engaged in their craft, regardless of the circumstances, highlighting the necessity of dedication to writing.
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Example use cases
This quote could be used during a writing workshop to inspire participants to keep writing despite challenges.
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All quotes →I never really knew I wanted to 'be' a writer, but I was always writing from a very young age. It became more conscious as an ideal when I was in my twenties.
I'm drawn to write about upstate New York in the way in which a dreamer might have recurring dreams. My childhood and girlhood were spent in upstate New York, in the country north of Buffalo and West of Rochester. So this part of New York state is very familiar to me and, with its economic difficulties, has become emblematic of much of American life.
My writing is often a way of 'bearing witness' for others who lack the education and the opportunity to tell their own stories, so I hope that my writing won't be affected too much by my personal life.
The worst cynicism: a belief in luck.
. . . there is a wish in the heart of mankind to be distracted and confused. Truth is but one attraction, and not always the most powerful.
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