Of the widow's countless death-duties there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband's death the widow should think I kept myself alive.
Joyce Carol OatesRead
When writing goes painfully, when it’s hideously difficult, and one feels real despair (ah, the despair, silly as it is, is real!)–then naturally one ought to continue with the work; it would be cowardly to retreat. But when writing goes smoothly–why then one certainly should keep on working, since it would be stupid to stop. Consequently one is always writing or should be writing.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Writing requires perseverance through challenges and a commitment to continue even during difficult times.
In this quote, Joyce Carol Oates emphasizes the importance of persistence in the writing process. She acknowledges that writing can be incredibly challenging and even despairing at times, yet it is essential to push through those difficulties rather than retreating. Conversely, when the creative flow is positive and effortless, it is equally important to continue harnessing that momentum. Ultimately, Oates suggests that a writer should always be engaged in their craft, regardless of the circumstances, highlighting the necessity of dedication to writing.
Themes
WritingPerseveranceCreativityPersistenceExpression
In practice
Example use cases
This quote could be used during a writing workshop to inspire participants to keep writing despite challenges.
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