Most of us have spent our lives caught up in plans, expectations, ambitions for the future; in regrets, guilt or shame about the past. To come into the present is to stop the war.
Jack KornfieldRead
Part of spiritual and emotional maturity is recognizing that it's not like you're going to try to fix yourself and become a different person. You remain the same person, but you become awakened.
Interpretation
Personal growth involves awareness and acceptance rather than transformation into someone completely different.
This quote emphasizes that true spiritual and emotional maturity is rooted in the awareness and acceptance of oneself rather than in a complete overhaul of one's identity. It suggests that personal growth is about awakening to one's true nature and understanding oneself on a deeper level, rather than attempting to become someone else entirely.
In practice
In a motivational talk on personal development, this quote can illustrate the importance of self-acceptance.
Most of us have spent our lives caught up in plans, expectations, ambitions for the future; in regrets, guilt or shame about the past. To come into the present is to stop the war.
We need courage and strength, a kind of warrior spirit. But the place for this warrior strength is in the heart. We need energy, commitment, and courage not to run from our life nor to cover it over with any philosophy-mate rial or spiritual. We need a warrior’s heart that lets us face our lives directly, our pains and limitations, our joys and possibilities.
The questions asked at the end of lie are very simple ones: Did I love well? Did I love the people around me, my community, the earth, in a deep way? And perhaps, Did I live fully? Did I offer myself to life?
We can bring our spiritual practice into the streets, into our communities, when we see each realm as a temple, as a place to discover that which is sacred.
According to Buddhist scriptures, compassion is the "quivering of the pure heart" when we have allowed ourselves to be touched by the pain of life.
Much of spiritual life is self-acceptance, maybe all of it.
Learn to say no; it will be of more use to you than to be able to read Latin.
We're doomed to repeat the past no matter what. That's what it is to be alive. It's pretty dense kids who haven't figured that out by the time they're ten.... Most kids can't afford to go to Harvard and be misinformed.
Talent is God given. Be humble. Fame is man-given. Be grateful. Conceit is self-given. Be careful.
Advice? I don't offer advice. Not my business. Your life is what you make it.
Whenever there is a simple error that most laymen fall for, there is always a slightly more sophisticated version of the same problem that experts fall for.
What's invisible to us is also crucial for our own well-being.
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