You have to know how to co-operate with other people if you want to stay alive and raise children. And to do that, you need to know something about them. You need to know who loves whom, who hates whom, who is sleeping with whom. Who is honest, who is a cheat.
Interpretation
Understanding others is essential for cooperation and survival in social contexts.
This quote emphasizes the significance of interpersonal relationships and social dynamics in ensuring both individual survival and the successful upbringing of children. It suggests that to navigate societal complexities and foster cooperation, one must be aware of the relational ties among individuals, including love, conflict, and honesty.
In practice
In a team-building workshop, we discussed how understanding each other's strengths enhances cooperation.
We control the world basically because we are the only animals that can cooperate flexibly in very large numbers. And if you examine any large-scale human cooperation, you will always find that it is based on some fiction like the nation, like money, like human rights.
I titled the book 'Homo Deus' because we really are becoming gods in the most literal sense possible. We are acquiring abilities that have always been thought to be divine abilities - in particular, the ability to create life. And we can do with that whatever we want.
The notion of superhumans is using bioengineering and artificial intelligence to upgrade human abilities. If they use the power to change themselves, to change their own minds, their own desires, then we have no idea what they will want to do.
Techno-humanism aims to amplify the power of humans, creating cyborgs and connecting humans to computers, but it still sees human interests and desires as the highest authority in the universe.
The most important question in 21st-century economics may well be, 'What should we do with all the superfluous people, once we have highly intelligent non-conscious algorithms that can do almost everything better than humans?'
Take Google Maps or Waze. On the one hand, they amplify human ability - you are able to reach your destination faster and more easily. But at the same time, you are shifting the authority to the algorithm and losing your ability to find your own way.
I've never had very high regard for therapists. I owe my health, my mental survival, to my friends and loved ones.
Lots of times you can feel as an exile in a country that you were born in.
We cannot live without the knowledge that someone cares about us.
All these people keep waxing sentimental about how fabulously well I am doing as a mother, how competent I am, but I feel inside like when you're first learning to put nail polish on your right hand with your left. You can do it, but it doesn't look all that great around the cuticles.
Loneliness is never more cruel than when it is felt in close propinquity with someone who has ceased to communicate.
In any relationship in which two people become one, the end result is two half people.
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