To confess your sins to God is not to tell [God] anything [God] doesn't already know. Until you confess them, however, they are the abyss between you. When you confess them, they become the bridge.
Frederick BuechnerRead
The pride that keeps us from forgiving is the same pride which keeps us from accepting forgiveness.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Pride can hinder both the act of forgiving others and the acceptance of forgiveness from them.
This quote by Frederick Buechner suggests that pride is a significant barrier in human relationships. It prevents individuals from forgiving those who have wronged them, as well as from accepting forgiveness when it is offered. Pride can manifest as an unwillingness to admit faults or the fear of vulnerability, which ultimately leads to a cycle of unresolved conflicts and emotional distance between people.
Themes
PrideForgivenessRelationshipsAcceptanceEmpathy
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about healing personal relationships, one might share this quote to illustrate the impact of pride.
More from Frederick Buechner
All quotes βBy and large a good rule for finding out is this: the kind of work God usually calls you to is the kind of work a) that you need most to do and b) the world most needs to have done. If you really get a kick out of your work, you've presumably met requirement a), but if your work is writing TV deodorant commercials, the chances are you've missed requirement b).
Frederick BuechnerRead
When you remember me, it means you have carried something of who I am with you, that I have left some mark of who I am on who you are. It means that you can summon me back to your mind even though countless years and miles may stand between us. It means that if we meet again, you will know me. It means that even after I die, you can still see my face and hear my voice and speak to me in your heart.
Frederick BuechnerRead
We find by losing. We hold fast by letting go. We become something new by ceasing to be something old. This seems to be close to the heart of that mystery. I know no more now than I ever did about the far side of death as the last letting-go of all, but now I know that I do not need to know, and that I do not need to be afraid of not knowing. God knows. That is all that matters.
Frederick BuechnerRead
To be wise is to be eternally curious.
Frederick BuechnerRead
if you don't have doubts you're either kidding yourself or asleep. Doubts are the ants-in-the-pants of faith. They keep it alive and moving.
Frederick BuechnerRead
Similar quotes
I'm typically single. I'm the girl who - I call it girl-next-door-itis - the hot guy is friends with and gets all his relationship advice from but never considers dating.
Taylor SwiftRead
If you would marry suitably, marry your equal.
OvidRead
A lot of it was really, really fun, but at some point, things started getting weird. We didn't allow each other to breathe. We didn't really have a sense of ourselves individually. We were very insecure... We were really threatened by the thought of 'Oh my God, what if someone goes off and does something outside the band?'
Charlotte CaffeyRead
The worst thing to call somebody is crazy. It's dismissive.
Dave ChappelleRead
It's going to take generations of gay people marrying before these things start to feel natural. We haven't had it long enough to remake it as our own, so it does feel like you're getting dressed up in straight drag to do it.
Dan SavageRead
Marriage is a career which brings about more benefits than many others.
Simone De BeauvoirRead