A lot of women seem to think the way to ingratiate themselves is to put down other women or backstab. That's the quickest way to be eliminated from my life - try that with me, and you're out.
Gabrielle UnionRead
I realized I had been keeping people around even when deep down I knew they were bad for me. I had overridden myself.
Interpretation
The quote emphasizes the importance of recognizing the detrimental impact of toxic relationships on one's well-being.
Gabrielle Union's quote highlights the struggle of maintaining relationships that are harmful, even when an individual recognizes the negative effects they have on their life. It speaks to the tendency to prioritize others’ presence over one’s own mental health, ultimately leading to the realization that self-care and setting boundaries are crucial for personal growth and happiness.
In practice
During a therapy session discussing personal well-being.
A lot of women seem to think the way to ingratiate themselves is to put down other women or backstab. That's the quickest way to be eliminated from my life - try that with me, and you're out.
Drama can feel like therapy whereas comedy feels like there's been a pressure and a weight lifted off of you. You come to work and you laugh all day, you go home and you feel light and there's a certain feeling when you're sitting with the audience and they leave after 90 minutes and it's just pure escapism and they're happy.
I think there's a lot of things that occur within the African-American community, that we would prefer to stay within the African-American community - that we get a little nervous when you start having scenes or dialogue that we know is going to be viewed and heard on a national or global scale.
I'm not going to change the world overnight. It's one person at a time, and hopefully they're people in positions of power who can help people get in those roles and really, truly embrace colorblind casting.
In my career, there have been roles I haven't taken because someone involved with the project gave me a bad vibe. I don't care how much money is on the table: No job is worth feeling uneasy every day.
When you start supporting a football club, you don't support it because of the trophies, or a player, or history, you support it because you found yourself somewhere there; found a place where you belong.
We have to look and ensure that we're paying attention to what we're doing, so that we don't reflexively institute processes and procedures that exclude people without thought.
We all, sometimes, leave each other there under the skies, and we never understand why.
Whenever I meet people for the first time, I get them to talk for ten minutes. Then I size them up from the exact opposite perspective of all they’ve told me. Do you think that’s crazy? “No,” I said, shaking my head, “I’d guess your method works quite well.
it's good to know who hates you and it is good to be hated by the right people
There are many things my father taught me here in this room. He taught me: keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.
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