When the sage points at the moon, all that the idiot sees is the finger.
Anthony De MelloRead
People mistakenly assume that their thinking is done by their head; it is actually done by the heart which first dictates the conclusion, then commands the head to provide the reasoning that will defend it.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Our emotions often guide our thoughts and conclusions more than we realize, and we rationalize them afterward.
This quote by Anthony De Mello emphasizes the profound influence of our emotions on our thoughts and beliefs. It suggests that while we may believe our reasoning originates in our intellect, it is actually driven by our feelings, with the heart leading the way. This process highlights the importance of acknowledging our emotional responses and understanding that they play a crucial role in shaping our perceptions and decisions.
Themes
EmotionsHeartReasoningThoughtsIntellect
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about emotional intelligence in a workplace seminar.
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