And the wild things roared their terrible roars and gnashed their terrible teeth and rolled their terrible eyes and showed their terrible claws.
Maurice SendakRead
I think people should be given a test much like driver's tests as to whether they're capable of being parents! It's an art form. I talk a lot. And I think a lot. And I draw a lot. But never in a million years would I have been a parent. That's just work that's too hard.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Parenting requires skills and qualities that not everyone possesses.
In this quote, Maurice Sendak emphasizes that being a parent is a challenging task, akin to mastering an art form. He suggests that just as individuals must pass tests to earn a driver's license, potential parents should be assessed for their suitability, acknowledging that the responsibilities and difficulties of parenting can be overwhelming.
Themes
ParentingChallengesResponsibilitySkills
In practice
Example use cases
In a parenting workshop to highlight the importance of preparation for parenthood.
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