If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
Each person deserves a day away in which no problems are confronted, no solutions searched for.
Interpretation
Everyone needs a break from daily challenges to recharge and reflect.
Maya Angelou's quote emphasizes the importance of taking time off from our daily struggles and responsibilities. It suggests that a respite from confronting problems allows individuals to rejuvenate their minds and spirits, fostering a healthier and more balanced approach to life.
In practice
In a motivational speech about the importance of mental health.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Mirth, and even cheerfulness, when employed as remedies in low spirits, are like hot water to a frozen limb.
To be stupid, selfish, and have good health are three requirements for happiness, though if stupidity is lacking, all is lost.
If you refuse to be happy until you have no problems or challenges, you will probably never be happy!
We have thousands of opportunities every day to be grateful: for having good weather, to have slept well last night, to be able to get up, to be healthy, to have enough to eat. ... There's opportunity upon opportunity to be grateful; that's what life is.
Bliss - a-second-by-second joy and gratitude at the gift of being alive, conscious - lies on the other side of crushing, crushing boredom. Pay close attention to the most tedious thing you can find (Tax Returns, Televised Golf) and, in waves, a boredom like youβve never known will wash over you and just about kill you. Ride these out, and itβs like stepping from black and white into color. Like water after days in the desert. Instant bliss in every atom.
All men have happiness as their object: there is no exception. However different the means they employ, they all aim at the same end.
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