Eminence without merit earns deference without esteem.
Nicolas ChamfortRead
Pleasure can be supported by an illusion; but happiness rests upon truth.
Interpretation
True happiness is based on reality rather than deception or false appearances.
This quote emphasizes the distinction between fleeting pleasure, which can often be nurtured by illusions and misconceptions, and genuine happiness, which is grounded in truth and authenticity. While pleasure may provide temporary satisfaction through misleading perceptions, lasting happiness arises from a clear and honest understanding of oneself and the world.
In practice
This quote could be shared in a personal development seminar to highlight the importance of honesty in achieving happiness.
Eminence without merit earns deference without esteem.
Nature never said to me: Do not be poor; still less did she say: Be rich; her cry to me was always: Be independent.
It is with happiness as with watches: the less complicated, the less easily deranged.
There are more fools than wise men, and even in a wise man there is more folly than wisdom.
In living and in seeing other men, the heart must break or become as bronze.
And so I leave this world, where the heart must either break or turn to lead (suicide note)
The unhappy person resents it when you try to cheer him up, because that means he has to stop dwelling on himself and start paying attention to the universe. Unhappiness is the ultimate form of self-indulgence. When you're unhappy, you get to pay a lot of attention to yourself. You get to take yourself oh so very seriously.
Little by little, even with other cares, the slowly but surely working poison of the garden-mania begins to stir in my long-sluggish veins.
Money is the most envied, but the least enjoyed. Health is the most enjoyed, but the least envied.
I spend hours playing chess because I find it so much fun. The day it stops being fun is the day I give up.
Happiness and peace of mind are a matter of consciousness. We must create the harmony we desire. As we raise our level of consciousness we become more in tune with the true nature of our being. This type of awareness is not an accident; it comes from study and an understanding that we are truly creative.
To enjoy anything, we cannot be attached to it... What we usually try to do is capture any joy that comes our way before it can escape... We try to cling to pleasure, but all we succeed in doing is making ourselves frustrated because, whatever it promises, pleasure simply cannot last. But if I am willing to kiss the joy as it flies, I say, "Yes, this moment is beautiful. I won't grab it. I'll let it go."
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