Everything is dangerous, my dear fellow. If it wasn't so, life wouldn't be worth living.
Oscar WildeRead
To be popular one must be a mediocrity.
Interpretation
Popularity often requires sacrificing individuality and excellence for conformity.
Oscar Wilde's quote suggests that in order to be well-liked or popular, one must often suppress unique qualities or talents and adopt a more average or conformist persona. This commentary on societal norms highlights the tension between personal authenticity and the desire for acceptance in social circles.
In practice
During a speech about staying true to oneself in a world of conformity.
Everything is dangerous, my dear fellow. If it wasn't so, life wouldn't be worth living.
London is too full of fogs and serious people. Whether the fogs produce the serious people, or whether the serious people produce the fogs, I don't know.
When one has never heard a man's name in the course of one's life, it speaks volumes for him; he must be quite respectable.
Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.
A truth ceases to be true when more than one person believes in it.
His morality is all sympathy, just what morality should be
Works? Works? A man get to heaven by works? I would as soon think of climbing to the moon on a rope of sand!
The greater the ambiguity, the greater the pleasure.
Journalism is popular, but it is popular mainly as fiction. Life is one world, and life seen in the newspapers is another.
In health of mind and body, men should see with their own eyes, hear and speak without trumpets, walk on their feet, not on wheels, and work and war with their arms, not with engine-beams, nor rifles warranted to kill twenty men at a shot before you can see them.
Just as our brains fill in the details of an image our eyes record only roughly, so, too, do our brains employ tricks we are unaware of to fill in details about people we don't know intimately.
In a sense, by closing off the idea that young Muslims, and particularly young Muslim men, can be American heroes, it increases the chance that they'll try to be some other kind of hero. And that, I think, is entirely counterproductive.
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