However much we guard against it, we tend to shape ourselves in the image others have of us.
Interpretation
We often conform to the perceptions others have of us, despite our best efforts to resist.
This quote reflects the idea that our identities are significantly influenced by how others perceive us. No matter how much we attempt to maintain our individuality, the views and judgments of those around us can mold our behaviors and self-image, suggesting a profound interplay between personal identity and societal expectations.
In practice
This quote could be used in a discussion about self-perception in psychology classes.
Language was invented to ask questions. Answers may be given by grunts and gestures, but questions must be spoken. Humanness came of age when man asked the first question. Social stagnation results not from a lack of answers but from the absence of the impulse to ask questions.
Faith in humanity, in posterity, in the destiny of one's religion, nation, race, party or family-what is it but the visualization of that eternal something to which we attach the self that is about to be annihilated?
You can discover what your enemy fears most by observing the means he uses to frighten you.
Our frustration is greater when we have much and want more than when we have nothing and want some. We are less dissatisfied when we lack many things than when we seem to lack but one thing.
Our credulity is greatest concerning the things we know least about.
Perhaps a modern society can remain stable only by eliminating adolescence, by giving its young, from the age of ten, the skills, responsibilities, and rewards of grownups, and opportunities for action in all spheres of life. Adolescence should be a time of useful action, while book learning and scholarship should be a preoccupation of adults.
Because not even the least Dharma is there found or got at. Therefore is it called 'utmost, right and perfect enlightenment'. Self-identical is that Dharma and nothing is therein at variance. Therefore is it called 'utmost, right and perfect enlighten'
The universe is like a safe to which there is a combination. But the combination is locked up in the safe.
Natural death is independent of all reason and is really an irrational death, in which the pitiable substance of the shell determines how long the kernel is to exist or not; in which, accordingly, the stunted, diseased and dull witted jailer is lord, and indicates the moment at which his distinguished prisoner shall die.
Never believe that the so-called random events of life are anything less than Godβs appointed order. Be ready to discover His divine designs anywhere and everywhere.
When thought is in bondage the truth is hidden, for everything is murky and unclear, and the burdensome practice of judging brings annoyance and weariness. What benefit can be derived from distinctions and separations?
Religious faith not only lacks evidence, its independence from evidence is its pride and joy, shouted from the rooftops.
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