We should every night call ourselves to an account: What infirmity have I mastered today? What passions opposed! What temptation resisted? What virtue acquired?
Seneca The ElderRead
A quarrel is quickly settled when deserted by one party; there is no battle unless there be two.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Conflicts end when one person chooses to walk away, as arguments require participation from both sides.
This quote by Seneca the Elder emphasizes the idea that many disputes can be resolved simply by one party deciding not to engage further. It suggests that conflicts are often perpetuated by the involvement of both individuals, and highlights the power of choosing not to participate in an argument, thereby diffusing the situation.
Themes
QuarrelConflictPeaceResolutionArgumentDispute
In practice
Example use cases
During a heated debate, I recalled a quote by Seneca that reminded me to stay calm and not engage further.
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