Slow but steady wins the race.
AesopRead
The quarrels of friends are the opportunities of foes.
Interpretation
Disagreements between friends can create advantages for their enemies.
This quote by Aesop suggests that conflicts among friends not only reveal the strength of their bonds but also highlight the vulnerabilities that can be exploited by their adversaries. It serves as a reminder that while friends may experience disagreements, these moments can be seized by those who wish to create division or take advantage of any cracks in the relationship.
In practice
During a speech about the importance of maintaining friendships, one might use this quote to illustrate how misunderstandings can lead to vulnerabilities.
Slow but steady wins the race.
We often despise what is most useful to us.
The haft of the arrow had been feathered with one of the eagle's own Lures. We often give our enemies the means of our own destruction.
We hang the petty thieves and appoint the great ones to public office.
If you are a friend, why do you bite me so hard? If an enemy, why do you fawn on me?
The unhappy derive comfort from the misfortunes of others.
I hate the giving of the hand unless the whole man accompanies it.
I do not want a friend who smiles when I smile, who weeps when I weep; for my shadow in the pool can do better than that.
The heart may think it knows better: the senses know that absence blots people out. We really have no absent friends. The friend becomes a traitor by breaking, however unwillingly or sadly, out of our own zone: a hard judgment is passed on him, for all the pleas of the heart.
They might not need me; but they might. I'll let my head be just in sight; a smile as small as mine might be precisely their necessity.
Good friend for Jesus sake forbeare, To digg the dust encloased heare! Blest be the man that spares thes stones, And curst be he that moves my bones.
I still have friends from primary school. And my two best girlfriends are from secondary school. I don't have to explain anything to them. I don't have to apologize for anything. They know. There's no judgment in any way.
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