The generality of virtuous women are like hidden treasures, they are safe only because nobody has sought after them.
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We torment ourselves rather to make it appear that we are happy than to become so.
Interpretation
What this quote means
People often pretend to be happy to avoid confronting their true feelings.
This quote suggests that individuals can sometimes choose to focus on the appearance of happiness rather than addressing their real emotions and seeking genuine joy. It highlights the tendency of people to self-torment and maintain facades, which can hinder true emotional well-being.
Themes
HappinessAppearanceEmotionAuthenticitySelf-Torment
In practice
Example use cases
This quote can be used in a discussion about mental health in a public seminar.
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