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We torment ourselves rather to make it appear that we are happy than to become so.
Francois De La Rochefoucauld
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Interpretation

What this quote means

People often pretend to be happy to avoid confronting their true feelings.

This quote suggests that individuals can sometimes choose to focus on the appearance of happiness rather than addressing their real emotions and seeking genuine joy. It highlights the tendency of people to self-torment and maintain facades, which can hinder true emotional well-being.

Themes

HappinessAppearanceEmotionAuthenticitySelf-Torment

In practice

Example use cases

This quote can be used in a discussion about mental health in a public seminar.

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