We can come to look upon the deaths of our enemies with as much regret as we feel for those of our friends, namely, when we miss their existence as witnesses to our success.
The real meaning of persona is a mask, such as actors were accustomed to wear on the ancient stage; and it is quite true that no one shows himself as he is, but wears his mask and plays his part. Indeed, the whole of our social arrangements may be likened to a perpetual comedy; and this is why a man who is worth anything finds society so insipid, while a blockhead is quite at home in it.
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What this quote means
This quote discusses the concept of persona, suggesting that people hide their true selves behind masks in social settings.
Arthur Schopenhauer reflects on the nature of human interactions, suggesting that individuals often conceal their true identities behind societal roles or personas, much like actors on a stage. He observes that this performance leads to a hollow experience for those who possess deeper insights, making social interactions feel trivial and unfulfilling for the thoughtful, while the less reflective individuals may find comfort and satisfaction in the same social contexts.
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Example use cases
During a discussion about authenticity in relationships, this quote can illustrate how people often hide their true selves.
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