It is in books, poems, paintings which often give us the confidence to take seriously feelings in ourselves that we might otherwise never have thought to acknowledge.
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We don't really learn anything properly until there is a problem, until we are in pain, until something fails to go as we had hoped ... We suffer, therefore we think.
Interpretation
What this quote means
We learn best through challenges and difficulties.
Alain De Botton suggests that true understanding and meaningful learning often emerge from our experiences with problems and failures. It is not until we face challenges or endure pain that we critically engage with our thoughts and adapt our learning processes, emphasizing the idea that suffering, in this context, acts as a catalyst for deeper reflection and understanding.
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In practice
Example use cases
In a motivational speech about overcoming adversity, one could use this quote to illustrate the importance of learning from setbacks.
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