Crows pick out the eyes of the dead, when the dead have no longer need of them; but flatterers mar the soul of the living, and her eyes they blind.
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What really frightens and dismays us is not external events themselves, but the way in which we think about them. It is not things that disturb us, but our interpretation of their significance.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Our fears are shaped more by our perceptions than by actual events.
This quote by Epictetus emphasizes that it is not the external events themselves that cause us distress, but rather our interpretations and thoughts about those events. It suggests that our mental framework and beliefs heavily influence our emotional responses, and by changing the way we interpret situations, we can alleviate our fears and anxieties.
Themes
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In practice
Example use cases
During a speech about emotional resilience, this quote can be used to illustrate the power of mindset.
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