The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right.
Henry Ward BeecherRead
Repentance may begin instantly, but reformation often requires a sphere of years.
Interpretation
What this quote means
True change takes time; while one can feel remorse quickly, the actual transformation of behavior often spans many years.
Henry Ward Beecher's quote highlights the distinction between the immediate feeling of regret associated with repentance and the prolonged effort required to alter one's behavior and habits. It suggests that while the desire to change can occur in an instant, genuine reformation is a gradual process that demands consistent effort over an extended period.
Themes
RepentanceReformationChangeTimeGrowth
In practice
Example use cases
In a seminar about personal development, one might say, 'As Henry Ward Beecher wisely noted, 'Repentance may begin instantly, but reformation often requires a sphere of years,' to illustrate the journey of lasting change.
More from Henry Ward Beecher
All quotes βA man who cannot get angry is like a stream that cannot overflow, that is always turbid. Sometimes indignation is as good as a thunderstorm in summer, clearing and cooling the air.
Henry Ward BeecherRead
No one can deal with the hearts of men unless he has the sympathy which is given by love.
Henry Ward BeecherRead
We are always on the anvil; by trials God is shaping us for higher things.
Henry Ward BeecherRead
No man can tell if he is rich or poor by turning to his ledger. It is the heart that makes a man rich. He is rich according to what he is, not according to what he has.
Henry Ward BeecherRead
There are joys which long to be ours. God sends ten thousands truths, which come about us like birds seeking inlet; but we are shut up to them, and so they bring us nothing, but sit and sing awhile upon the roof, and then fly away.
Henry Ward BeecherRead
Similar quotes
Sexual, racial, gender violence and other forms of discrimination and violence in a culture cannot be eliminated without changing culture.
Charlotte BunchRead
You must be the change you wish to see in the world.
Mahatma GandhiRead
We can almost recycle everything now. If we lived within our means, by being prudent, the 7 billion people in the world could have everything they needed. Global politics should be moving in that direction. But we think as people and countries, not as a species.
Jose MujicaRead
Investing in women's lives is an investment in sustainable development, in human rights, in future generations - and consequently in our own long-term national interests.
Liya KebedeRead
Open your arms to change but don't let go of your values.
Dalai LamaRead
If we are to make poverty history, we must have the active participation of States, civil society and the private sector, as well as individual volunteers.
Kofi AnnanRead