The definition of 'morbid' is an unhealthy preoccupation with death. Unfortunately, there's no word to mean the perfectly healthy preoccupation with death, which is what I have.
Caitlin DoughtyRead
Dying in the sanitary environment of a hospital is a relatively new concept. In the late 19th century, dying at a hospital was reserved for people who had nothing and no one. Given the choice, a person wanted to die at home in their bed, surrounded by friends and family.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote reflects on the changing perceptions of death and where it occurs.
This quote by Caitlin Doughty highlights the historical shift in attitudes towards dying, suggesting that in the past, hospitals were seen as places for the destitute, while most people preferred to pass away at home, surrounded by loved ones. It underscores the emotional and social dimensions of death, emphasizing the importance of comfort and connection at the end of life.
Themes
DeathHospitalHomeFamilyChangeHistory
In practice
Example use cases
During a lecture on palliative care, one might use this quote to discuss the emotional aspects of dying.
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