To confess your sins to God is not to tell [God] anything [God] doesn't already know. Until you confess them, however, they are the abyss between you. When you confess them, they become the bridge.
Frederick BuechnerRead
I not only have my secrets, I am my secrets. And you are yours. Our secrets are human secrets, and our trusting each other enough to share them with each other has much to do with the secret of what it means to be human.
Interpretation
What this quote means
Our secrets define us and sharing them is integral to human connection.
In this thought-provoking quote, Frederick Buechner explores the profound nature of secrets and the essential role they play in our identities. By asserting that we are essentially comprised of our secrets, he suggests that these hidden aspects of ourselves contribute greatly to our humanity. Furthermore, Buechner emphasizes that trust and vulnerability in sharing these secrets with one another foster deeper, more meaningful relationships, ultimately highlighting the interconnectedness of human experience.
Themes
SecretsTrustHuman ConnectionRelationshipsIdentity
In practice
Example use cases
In a discussion about the meaning of trust in relationships during a workshop.
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When you remember me, it means you have carried something of who I am with you, that I have left some mark of who I am on who you are. It means that you can summon me back to your mind even though countless years and miles may stand between us. It means that if we meet again, you will know me. It means that even after I die, you can still see my face and hear my voice and speak to me in your heart.
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We find by losing. We hold fast by letting go. We become something new by ceasing to be something old. This seems to be close to the heart of that mystery. I know no more now than I ever did about the far side of death as the last letting-go of all, but now I know that I do not need to know, and that I do not need to be afraid of not knowing. God knows. That is all that matters.
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To be wise is to be eternally curious.
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if you don't have doubts you're either kidding yourself or asleep. Doubts are the ants-in-the-pants of faith. They keep it alive and moving.
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