I have often thought of it as one of the most barbarous customs in the world, considering us as a civilized and a Christian country, that we deny the advantages of learning to women.
Daniel DefoeRead
I have since often observed, how incongruous and irrational the common temper of mankind is, especially of youth ... that they are not ashamed to sin, and yet are ashamed to repent; not ashamed of the action for which they ought justly to be esteemed fools, but are ashamed of the returning, which only can make them be esteemed wise men.
Interpretation
What this quote means
People often feel shame for seeking forgiveness rather than for committing wrongdoings.
In this quote, Daniel Defoe reflects on the paradoxical nature of human behavior, particularly in youth, where individuals feel embarrassed to repent for their sins even though it is the act of sinning that should incite shame. This observation highlights a deeper commentary on social norms and the psychological barriers to acknowledging one's faults and seeking redemption, suggesting that wisdom lies in humility and the courage to change.
Themes
RepentanceShameWisdomYouthBehavior
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about personal growth and transformation, one might use this quote to illustrate the importance of acknowledging mistakes.
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