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What we have learned to look for in a situation determines mostly what we see.
Ellen Langer
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Interpretation

What this quote means

Our perceptions shape our reality; what we focus on influences what we notice.

Ellen Langer's quote highlights the significant role that our expectations and learned behaviors play in shaping our perception of situations. By indicating that what we consciously look for dictates what we ultimately observe, she emphasizes the power of mindset and awareness in shaping our experiences and understanding of the world around us.

Themes

PerceptionAwarenessSituationFocusLearning

In practice

Example use cases

In a motivational speech about personal growth and awareness.

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