If you have the guts to be yourself, other people'll pay your price.
John UpdikeRead
Now that I am sixty, I see why the idea of elder wisdom has passed from currency.
Interpretation
Elder wisdom is often undervalued or dismissed in modern society.
In this quote, John Updike reflects on the perceived decline of respect for the insights and experiences of the elderly. As he reaches sixty, he acknowledges that the traditional notion of 'elder wisdom' seems to have lost relevance in a fast-paced world that often prioritizes youth and innovation over the life lessons gathered through age, suggesting a societal shift in valuing knowledge and experience.
In practice
In a discussion about the importance of mentorship, one might say this quote to emphasize the undervalued insights of older generations.
If you have the guts to be yourself, other people'll pay your price.
Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time, for that's the stuff life is made of. _x000D_ _x000D_ Suspect each moment, for it is a thief, tiptoeing away with more than it brings.
Museums and bookstores should feel, I think, like vacant lots - places where the demands on us are our own demands, where the spirit can find exercise in unsupervised play.
But it is just two lovers, holding hands and in a hurry to reach their car, their locked hands a starfish leaping through the dark.
The reader knows the writer better than he knows himself; but the writer's physical presence is light from a star that has moved on.
To guarantee the individual maximum freedom within a social frame of minimal laws ensures - if not happiness - its hopeful pursuit.
I am willing to let go. I release others to experience whatever is meaningful to them, and I am free to create that which is meaningful to me.
As a surgeon you have to have a controlled arrogance. If it's uncontrolled, you kill people, but you have to be pretty arrogant to saw through a person's chest, take out their heart and believe you can fix it. Then, when you succeed and the patient survives, you pray, because it's only by the grace of God that you get there.
It is only because you take your mind to be yourself, and make it dwell on what you are not, that you lose your sense of well-being.
Gratitude develops faith. The surest path out of a slump is marked by the road sign "thank you, God."
My uncle ordered popovers from the restaurant's bill of fare. And, when they were served, he regarded them with a penetrating stare. Then he spoke great words of wisdom as he sat there on that chair: "To eat these things," said my uncle, "You must exercise great care. You may swallow down what's solid, but you must spit out the air!" And as you partake of the world's bill of fare, that's darned good advice to follow. Do a lot of spitting out the hot air. And be careful what you swallow.
I'm very pleased with each advancing year. It stems back to when I was forty. I was a bit upset about reaching that milestone, but an older friend consoled me. "Don't complain about growing old - many, many people do not have that privilege."
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