I've been running my whole life. Running into bars, running around the world. But when you have a child, you can't run. That was a revelation.
Craig FergusonRead
I remember talking to someone early on after I was sober about how I suddenly felt awkward at parties. They said, 'Well, you're supposed to. Everyone feels awkward at parties.' It's an appropriate feeling to feel.
Interpretation
Feeling awkward at social events is a common experience, and it's okay to acknowledge it.
In this quote, Craig Ferguson reflects on the universal nature of social awkwardness, especially in situations like parties. He communicates that the feeling of discomfort is not unique to him or anyone in recovery; rather, it is a shared human experience, suggesting that it is perfectly normal to feel out of place in social settings. This realization can help individuals embrace their feelings rather than judge themselves for them.
In practice
This quote can be used as a comforting reminder during a speech on overcoming social anxiety.
I've been running my whole life. Running into bars, running around the world. But when you have a child, you can't run. That was a revelation.
A lot of people come to L.A. looking for something. What I came here for, I realize now, is to be okay with myself.
I think when you become a parent you go from being a star in the movie of your own life to the supporting player in the movie of someone else's.
If I start giving people what they like I'll turn into one of them and I don't want to be one of them I want to be one of me.
When I stopped drinking, it was only because I thought if I don't stop, I'm going to die.
The Universe is very, very big. It also loves a paradox. For example, it has some extremely strict rules. Rule number one: Nothing lasts forever. Not you or your family or your house or your planet or the sun. It is an absolute rule. Therefore when someone says that their love will never die, it means that their love is not real, for everything that is real dies. Rule number two: Everything lasts forever.
And this would normalize the existence of the Israeli and the Jew: a majority of Jews in the Land of Israel and a majority of Israelis among the Jewish People.
He always seemed to women different from what he was, and they loved in him not himself, but the man created by their imagination, whom they had been eagerly seeking all their lives; and afterwards, when they noticed their mistake, they loved him all the same.
Marriage is the most natural state of man, and therefore the state in which one is most likely to find solid happiness.
What does open us is sharing our vulnerabilities. Sometimes we see a couple who has done this difficult work over a lifetime. In the process, they have grown old together. We can sense the enormous comfort, the shared quality of ease between these people. It is beautiful, and very rare. Without this quality of openness and vulnerability, partners don't really know each other; they are one image living with another image.
Forgiveness to the injured does belong; but they ne'er pardon who have done wrong.
[I]n Africa I was a member of a family—of a sort of family that the people of your culture haven't known for thousands of years. If gorillas were capable of such an expression, they would tell you that their family is like a hand, of which they are the fingers. They are fully aware of being a family but are very little aware of being individuals. Here in the zoo there were other gorillas—but there was no family. Five severed fingers do not make a hand.
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