I was amazed as people must be who are seized and kidnapped, and who realize that in the strange world of their captors they have a value absolutely unconnected with anything they know about themselves.
Alice MunroRead
Sometimes our connection is frayed, it is in danger, it seems almost lost. Views and streets deny knowledge of us, the air grows thin. Wouldn't we rather have a destiny to submit to, than, something that claims us, anything, instead of such flimsy choices, arbitrary days?
Interpretation
This quote reflects on the fragility of human connections and the desire for deeper meaning in our lives.
Alice Munro's quote explores the complexity of relationships and the anxiety that comes with feeling disconnected from others. It suggests that in moments of uncertainty, we often yearn for a purpose or destiny to guide us, instead of the seemingly random choices life presents. The imagery evokes a sense of fragility in our connections and highlights a desire for something more substantial than our everyday interactions.
In practice
During a speech on the importance of friendships, one might use this quote to emphasize the need for deeper connections.
I was amazed as people must be who are seized and kidnapped, and who realize that in the strange world of their captors they have a value absolutely unconnected with anything they know about themselves.
Anecdotes don't make good stories. Generally I dig down underneath them so far that the story that finally comes out is not what people thought their anecdotes were about.
I just believed it easily, the way you might believe and in fact remember that you once had another set of teeth, now vanished but real in spite of that. Until one day, one day when I may even have been in my teens, I knew with a dim sort of hole in my insides that now I didn't believe it anymore.
You want in all cases for the story to get through the writing.
A story is not like a road to follow... it's more like a house. You go inside and stay there for a while, wandering back and forth and settling where you like and discovering how the room and corridors relate to each other, how the world outside it altered by being viewed from these windows.
It's certainly true that when I was young, writing seemed to me so important that I would have sacrificed almost anything to it ... Because I thought of the world in which I wrote -- the world I created -- as somehow much more enormously alive than the world I was actually living in.
Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being.
Before marriage, a girl has to make love to a man to hold him. After marriage, she has to hold him to make love to him.
I missed you even when I was with you. That’s been my problem. I miss what I already have, and I surround myself with things that are missing.
But that is how men are! Ungrateful and never satisfied. When you don't have them they hate you because you won't; and when you do have them they hate you again, for some other reason. Or for no reason at all, except that they are discontented children, and can't be satisfied whatever they get, let a woman do what she may.
There is not a man of us who does not at times need a helping hand to be stretched out to him, and then shame upon him who will not stretch out the helping hand to his brother.
Let's create an integrated global community where we have shared benefits and responsibilities, and we don't fight because of our differences.
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