Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony.
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And then sometimes I think the people to feel saddest for are people who once knew what profoundness was, but who lost or became numb to the sensation of wonder – people who closed the doors that leads us into the secret world – or who had the doors closed for them by time and neglect and decisions made in times of weakness.
Interpretation
What this quote means
The quote emphasizes the sadness of losing one's sense of wonder and profoundness in life due to time and choices.
Douglas Coupland reflects on the importance of maintaining a sense of wonder in life. He suggests that there are individuals who once experienced deep moments of insight and fascination but have since become disconnected from those feelings. This disconnection can happen through neglect, the passage of time, or poor decisions made in vulnerable moments, leading to a life that lacks the richness and mystery inherent in the world.
Themes
WonderProfoundnessSadnessNeglectCuriosity
In practice
Example use cases
In a speech about the importance of creativity, one could cite this quote to highlight the need for wonder in artistry.
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