If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
As soon as healing takes place, go out and heal somebody else.
Interpretation
Healing is a process that should be shared once it is achieved.
This quote emphasizes the importance of sharing one's own healing experiences with others. Once an individual has found healing from their own struggles, they should extend their compassion and support to those in need, thereby creating a cycle of healing and community support that benefits both the healed and the healer.
In practice
A speaker at a mental health conference might use this quote to encourage attendees to share their stories of recovery.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Every correct answer is necessarily a secret: something important and unknown, something hard to do but doable.
Had our hearts been pure, we would never tire with the Dhikr of Allaah.
You can indulge your righteous rage but the things it comes out of are pretty cheap. The trick is to make yourself an instrument of your own policy. Whether you like it or not, that's the highest effectiveness man has achieved.
Violence among young people is an aspect of their desire to create. They don't know how to use their energy creatively so they do the opposite and destroy.
The regret on our side is, they used to say years ago, we are reading about you in science class. Now they say, we are reading about you in history class.
No foreign sky protected me, no stranger's wing shielded my face. I stand as witness to the common lot survivor of that time, that place.
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