If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
Maya AngelouRead
As soon as healing takes place, go out and heal somebody else.
Interpretation
Healing is a process that should be shared once it is achieved.
This quote emphasizes the importance of sharing one's own healing experiences with others. Once an individual has found healing from their own struggles, they should extend their compassion and support to those in need, thereby creating a cycle of healing and community support that benefits both the healed and the healer.
In practice
A speaker at a mental health conference might use this quote to encourage attendees to share their stories of recovery.
If I am not good to myself, how can I expect anyone else to be good to me?
I find it interesting that the meanest life, the poorest existence, is attributed to God's will, but as human beings become more affluent, as their living standard and style begin to ascend the material scale, God descends the scale of responsibility at commensurate speed.
The white American man makes the white American woman maybe not superfluous but just a little kind of decoration. Not really important to turning around the wheels of the state. Well the black American woman has never been able to feel that way. No black American man at any time in our history in the United States has been able to feel that he didn't need that black woman right against him, shoulder to shoulder-in that cotton field, on the auction block, in the ghetto, wherever.
I dreamt we walked together along the shore. We made satisfying small talk and laughed. This morning I found sand in my shoe and a seashell in my pocket. Was I only dreaming?
I know that I'm not the easiest person to live with. The challenge I put on myself is so great that the person I live with feels himself challenged. I bring a lot to bear, and I don't know how not to.
I think Clinton, after getting into office and into Washington, was shocked at being bludgeoned. So he spent time trying to be all things to all people - one way guaranteed not to be successful or respected in a lion's den. You can't just play around with all those big cats - you've got to take somebody on.
Failure to plan brings barrenness and sterility. Fate brushes man with its wings, but we make our own fate largely.
The simple things are also the most extraordinary things, and only the wise can see them.
We say no to a lot of things so we can invest an incredible amount of care on what we do.
Habits are the invisible architecture of everyday life.
We cannot master everything, taste everything, understand everything, drain every experience to its last dregs. But if we have the courage to let almost everything else go, we will probably be able to retain the thing necessary for us-whatever it may be. If we are too eager to have everything, we will almost certainly miss even the one thing we need
Destiny grants us our wishes, but in its own way, in order to give us something beyond our wishes.
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