Never to get lost is not to live, not to know how to get lost brings you to destruction.
Rebecca SolnitRead
If sorrow and beauty are all tied up together, then perhaps maturity brings with it not what Nabhan calls abstraction, but an aesthetic sense that partially redeems the losses time brings and finds beauty in the faraway.
Interpretation
Maturity allows us to reconcile sorrow and beauty, offering a deeper appreciation for life's complexities.
In this quote, Rebecca Solnit suggests that true maturity involves embracing the duality of sorrow and beauty. Rather than seeing these emotions as oppositional forces, maturity enables individuals to perceive them as interconnected aspects of life, leading to an enriched aesthetic appreciation that finds solace and beauty in the inevitable losses that time brings.
In practice
Using this quote in a discussion about the impact of life experiences on personal growth.
Never to get lost is not to live, not to know how to get lost brings you to destruction.
I still think the revolution is to make the world safe for poetry, meandering, for the frail and vulnerable, the rare and obscure, the impractical and local and small.
We have a real role in how our own collective lives, our nation, and our world and society turn out. Seizing those opportunities is important, and disasters are sometimes one of those opportunities.
The object we call a book is not the real book, but its potential, like a musical score or seed. It exists fully only in the act of being read; and its real home is inside the head of the reader, where the symphony resounds, the seed germinates. A book is a heart that only beats in the chest of another.
Cities have always offered anonymity, variety, and conjunction, qualities best basked in by walking: one does not have to go into the bakery or the fortune-teller's, only to know that one might. A city always contains more than any inhabitant can know, and a great city always makes the unknown and the possible spurs to the imagination.
We fly; we dream in darkness; we devour heaven in bites too small to be measured.
The essence of the religious emotions consists in the feeling of an absolute dependence.
Once thing goes wrong, then the whole house of cards collapses. And there's no way you can extricate yourself. Until someone comes along to drag you out.
I thank my God for graciously granting me the opportunity of learning that death is the key which unlocks the door to our true happiness.
If Islam despises Christianity, it has a thousandfold right to do so: Islam at least assumes that it is dealing with men.
By using money as the scapegoat and work as our all-consuming routine, we are able to conveniently disallow ourselves to do otherwise: 'John, I'd love to talk about the gaping void I feel in my life, the hopelessness that hits me like a punch in the eye every time I start my computer in the morning, but I have so much work to do! I've got at least three hours of unimportant email to reply to before calling prospects who said 'no' yesterday. Gotta run!
What is it about childhood that never lets you go, even when you're so wrecked it's hard to believe you ever were a child?
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